Oh boy. It's so easy to tear ourselves down when we start scrolling our Instagram feed.
How come she has that great job and I have nothing?
She travels so much and I haven't had a vacation in years!
He always is doing so many exciting things... and my life? It's so boring. Of course, these is a faulty thoughts. When we compare ourselves to others we forget that we also have the ability to create these, and other, wonderful things for ourselves by focusing on creating them. This means understanding well what it is we actually want for ourselves, and then putting in the time, energy and effort to create them.
Next time you find yourself comparing with others, I invite you to remember your own truth. What is important for you? What does this inspire in you? What are the next steps you can take to create to make this come true?